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Early Childcare Guide: What Every Parent of 0–3 Year Olds Should Know

Choosing childcare can feel like a huge decision, especially when your little one is still so tiny. With so many options, approaches, and philosophies out there, it’s totally normal to feel overwhelmed. This guide walks you through the most common options for babies and toddlers and what sets each one apart, so you can feel more confident about which option is best for your family.

Feeling overwhelmed? You’re not alone!

Finding childcare for a baby or toddler can bring up so many emotions: excitement, stress, curiosity, and sometimes a little guilt. Add in Denver’s huge variety of programs, approaches, and philosophies, and it’s easy to feel unsure about where to start.

The good news? You don’t have to become an early childhood expert overnight. Once you understand the main types of care and the common philosophies behind them, the whole process feels much more manageable. This guide breaks everything down in a simple, parent-friendly way to help you begin your search with a stronger foundation.

What types of childcare are available in Denver?

Most families start their childcare search by exploring the three most common types of care available: in-home childcare programs, nannies or au pairs, and licensed childcare centers. Each one offers a different environment and level of structure, and understanding these basics can help you narrow down what feels like the best match for your child and your routine.

In-Home Childcare

In-home childcare programs take place in a caregiver’s home and typically offer smaller group sizes with a warm, home-like atmosphere. They usually offer activities throughout the day, outdoor play and simple routines that support both infants and toddlers. Many parents like the individualized attention, flexible routines, and the comfort of a home setting. When touring an in-home daycare, it’s helpful to ask about licensing, daily structure, safety practices, and how the caregiver supports mixed ages throughout the day.

This might be the best fit for:

  • Families who want a smaller, homey environment, especially for infants and young toddlers
  • Babies or toddlers who thrive in smaller groups
  • Parents looking for a balance of structure and flexibility

Nannies and Au Pairs

Nanny care is a great option for families who want one-on-one attention and a more flexible schedule in the child’s own environment. Many nannies bring experience with early childhood development and can build a daily rhythm around your child’s needs: outdoor walks, sensory play, storytime, naps, and meals tailored to your routine. Au pairs offer similar care but live in your home, providing full-time support for your family. When interviewing nannies, it can be helpful to discuss expectations around schedules, communication, and household boundaries. The biggest thing to remember is that hiring a nanny means taking on employer responsibilities, which requires some extra planning.

This might be the best fit for:

  • Families with unpredictable or non-traditional work schedules
  • Babies who do best with individualized attention
  • Parents who prefer care in the home

Childcare Centers

Childcare centers, sometimes called early learning programs or daycares, are licensed facilities that care for larger groups of children, usually with age-based classrooms. Daycares often provide more structure throughout the day, with engaging activities and predictible routines. Many centers follow specific early learning philosophies like Montessori, Reggio Emilia, or play-based learning. Touring a center is a great way to see how each program creates its environment and supports infant and toddler development.

This might be the best fit for:

  • Families who want consistent schedules and daily structure
  • Children who thrive in larger groups
  • Parents interested in specific early learning philosophies

Early learning approaches and philosophies:

Beyond the type of childcare, many parents also want to understand the approach or philosophy behind a program. While these approaches may feel more noticeable in preschool, many centers incorporate their philosophy into infant and toddler classrooms as well. Knowing the basics can help you look for environments that align with your family’s values and your child’s needs.

Montessori

Montessori programs focus on independence, hands-on exploration, and child-led learning. Even with babies and toddlers, classrooms are designed with low shelves, real materials, and opportunities for children to move freely and explore at their own pace.

Reggio Emilia

Reggio-inspired programs emphasize creativity, curiosity, and the belief that children are natural explorers. Classrooms tend to follow the child’s lead and offer a flexible flow to the day, with sensory-rich, open-ended materials that invite little ones to explore at their own pace.

Play-Based

Play-based learning focuses on the idea that babies and toddlers learn best through play. These programs prioritize activities like pretend play, sensory bins, songs, storytime, climbing, and hands-on discovery.

Traditional / Structured Programs

Traditional or structured programs include more teacher-led activities and a clearer daily schedule. Babies and toddlers still play throughout the day, but caregivers may introduce short group times, simple themed activities, and more planned routines.

What to look for in a childcare program:

Touring a childcare program is one of the best ways to get a real feel for whether it’s a good fit for your little one. As you walk through the space, try to look beyond the décor and focus on the things that truly matter for babies and toddlers.

  1. Warm, responsive caregivers
    Pay attention to how caregivers interact with the children. Are they down at their level? Do they speak gently? Do they comfort, guide, and stay present? Warm relationships form the foundation for healthy early development.
  2. Clean, safe spaces
    The environment doesn’t need to be Pinterest-perfect, just safe, tidy, and thoughtfully arranged. Look for childproofing, soft spaces to explore, and clear rooms for supervision.
  3. Colorado licensing
    Ask if the program is licensed with the State of Colorado. Licensing helps ensure that a childcare program meets essential health, safety, and staffing standards.
  4. Support for healthy development
    Look for signs that the classroom encourages exploration and development. This might include simple, open-ended toys, babies playing on the floor rather than spending long stretches in containers, engaging spaces for tummy time, and opportunities for toddlers to climb, build, and pretend.
  5. Daily schedule
    Some programs follow a flexible flow to the day while others stick to a more structured schedule. Ask how they handle naps, meals, transitions, and how schedules differ for babies versus toddlers.
  6. Philosophy or approach
    Every program is guided by something, even if it’s not tied to a formal philosophy. Ask how they think about learning, play, discipline, and the flow of the day. Their answer can tell you a lot about whether it aligns with your child’s needs.
  7. Outdoor and gross motor play
    Movement is essential for babies and toddlers. Check whether the center offers outdoor time, a gross motor room, or indoor climbing and movement opportunities.
  8. Communication and parent updates
    Ask how they communicate with families. Do they share daily reports about eating, sleeping, diapering, and activities? Do they send photos? Do you get summaries of what your child is learning each week? Clear communication builds trust and keeps you connected to your child’s day.

How do you make the “right” choice?

Choosing childcare for your baby or toddler is a big decision, but taking the time to explore your options and tour different programs can help you feel more confident in your choice. Follow your gut, ask questions, and look for a place where your child feels safe, cared for, and understood.

Remember, there’s no “right” answer. You know your little one best, and that will guide you to the best choice for your family.

Kayli Besser

Kayli Besser

Hi! I’m Kayli, wife to an incredible husband, mom to a sweet, energetic two-year-old boy, dog mom to two crazy pups, and founder of Baby University. As a former preschool teacher with a background in Early Childhood Education, I’ve used my expertise to offer an innovative approach to early childhood development, blending fun, play, and learning in a way that feels natural and exciting.

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